A Message from Toni Weschler
Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents
What’s trash got to do, got to do with it?????????
Understanding female sexual response is not all that big a mystery if men just internalize one of the cardinal concepts of female sexuality: A woman is much more likely to be sexually responsive to her partner if she doesn’t feel like his mother. There, I said it. So what does this have to do with trash? For starters, several studies have finally validated what most women have experienced for years. For many women, there is nothing sexier than a partner vacuuming or spontaneously unloading the dishwasher without (gasp) being asked! A man who helps with the daily minutia of life is undoubtedly more sexually appealing to his partner because she’ll be less exhausted from having worked all day, come home [...]
Cycles, Fertility and the Limits of High-Tech
If you’ve recently been living under a rock, you might have missed the news about the first FDA-cleared birth control app that purports to allow you to prevent pregnancy by telling you when you are safe for unprotected intercourse. I’m loath to mention its name, however, for fear that women will run out and download it without understanding its most serious pitfall, which I will get to in a minute. As I mentioned a couple years ago, when I first decided to publish Taking Charge of Your Fertility back in the Paleolithic Era of 1995, the internet had yet to dominate our lives. So back then, the thing that kept me up nights was my concern that women would maybe misunderstand concepts in [...]
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