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A Message from Toni Weschler

Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents

When Life Hands You Lemons . . .

Trying to get pregnant when it seems so fleeting can be daunting at times. This list was initially inspired by Rebecca Smith Waddell and Lisa A. Kramer, who mentioned that “the world of infertility provides lots of hilarious inspiration.” Enjoy.   Basal Instinct An urge to shake down your basal thermometer BEFORE recording your temperature in a futile attempt to work up a sweat and boost up your temperature; usually strikes late in the menstrual cycle about the time your temperature would naturally plummet before the onset of your dreaded period.   Briefectomy Furtive removal of all tight fitting briefs from your husband's underwear drawer.   Climbmax What you say to hubby (if his name is Max) as he prepares [...]

By | May 16th, 2018|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments

The Problem With Pregnancy Wheels

You may already know the drill, or if not you, certainly your sister, cousin, or friend does. Whenever a woman gets a positive pregnancy test at the doctor’s office, the first thing the clinician will usually do is grab a pregnancy wheel from the drawer while asking her the first day of her last menstrual period. Entering that one date gives women their due date. But how accurate are these wheels? The problem is, they are based on the assumption that women ovulate on Day 14, which may or may not be true for you personally, or may not have been the case for that particular cycle. In essence, the wheel measures the gestational age of your pregnancy. But a [...]

By | May 2nd, 2018|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments
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