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Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents

Identifying Sources of Unusual Bleeding

A fairly common mistake that women make is assuming that every bleeding episode they have is a period. And since most of us have been raised to believe that a normal cycle length is 28 days, every aberration from that length is interpreted as either too early or too late. No wonder cycles often seem crazy-making. In addition, it’s very possible that at some point in your life, you will indeed experience unusual or abnormal bleeding, which is essentially any bleeding that is different from a true menstrual period. By definition, a period is the bleeding that occurs about two weeks after ovulation. In order to understand unusual bleeding, you should know what normal is as a point of reference: [...]

By | July 6th, 2018|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments

She Said What?

I’ll never forget the surprising comment my mom made one sunny afternoon when I was about 15 years old. It had been one of those days when everything was going wrong, and I was feeling pretty cranky. To top it off, I had my period and was dealing with major cramps, so I was hardly the picture of joy and harmony. So what did I do? I did what any self-respecting teenager would do in a situation like that: I started complaining incessantly about menstruation and how ridiculous it was. I mean, you’re living your life, when all of a sudden, blood just starts flowing between your legs. How bizarre is that? And it’s not enough that it happens once [...]

By | June 7th, 2018|Blog, Front Page|5 Comments
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