A Message from Toni Weschler
Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents
Improve Your Sex Life in the Age of The Coronavirus
Like most of you, I’ve been a tad consumed with this (oh, I don’t know) little inconvenience of Covid-19. And every day, I can’t help but feel like we are all actors in one of the most surreal episodes of the Twilight Zone. At any rate, since one of our new but necessary realities is wasting an inordinate amount of time each week in the grocery line (first waiting to get into the store, then waiting in the interminable lines winding down the aisles, spaced six feet apart), why not put that time to good use? Embrace a paradigm shift and decide that the longer the line is, the more opportunity you’ll have to make sex better for both you [...]
Who Doesn’t Love a Good Mammogram?
A few days ago, I had the, um, pleasure of subjecting myself to one of the many indignities women continually face when taking charge of their health: the lovely mammogram. For those of you who somehow missed the memo, a mammogram is a diagnostic procedure in which each of a woman’s breasts is basically squished between two hard cold slabs to the height of (oh, I don’t know), a gummy bear! And as if that weren’t enough, for giggles, the patient is then told to take a few steps back, remove said breasts from the clunky machine so that she can experience the joys of having her breasts squished yet again, only diagonally this time. I have to admit that [...]
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