A Message from Toni Weschler

Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents

What Do Baths Have To Do With Orgasms?

One of the hardest things for some women to admit is that they’ve never had an orgasm, and they often assume that they are the only ones. Actually, a woman’s ability to achieve an orgasm is much more complex than a man’s, and often requires just the right ambience, to say nothing of technique. One of the best ways for women to learn how to have an orgasm is to lay comfortably in their bathtub with a bath pillow under their head, and let a warm stream of water flow over their clitoris, ideally using a hand-held shower wand. It may take quite a few times in order for you to discover what feels good for you, but usually the warm stream of water alone will allow you [...]

By | November 29th, 2016|Blog, Front Page|0 Comments

A Little Chuckle to Divert You After the Election

A few weeks ago, after a grueling meeting working on TCOYF fertility app updates with my partners in Bellingham, Washington, I was looking forward to the relaxing train ride back to my home in Seattle. But a minute before it was supposed to arrive in the station, they announced that boulders had crashed onto the tracks between the two cities, so they’d need to send ahead a bunch of equipment on a rig to clear it first. At this point, I’m starting to panic a bit, because I didn’t have dinner, and now I’m envisioning the train stuck for hours and hours with no food to eat. So I do the only respectable thing a health educator would do in my situation: I buy a stale Snickers bar from the [...]

By | November 16th, 2016|Blog, Front Page|0 Comments
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