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Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

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The Inception of the Fertility Awareness Network (FAN) (Part II)

Stuffed and mangled manila envelopes packed with all manner of research studies etc. would only get us so far back in the ‘80s. Ultimately, the founding members of the secular Fertility Awareness Network realized that in order to learn all we could from each other, we’d have to meet in person. But because we didn’t have the benefit of financial backing as did religious natural family planning organizations that held annual conferences, we found ourselves flying each year to members’ homes for week-long stays instead. One summer I treated my houseguests in Seattle to a stifling tiny attic space packed to the gills, but they were clearly so excited to be amongst like-minded instructors that they somehow failed to notice that the temp often reached into the 90s as [...]

By | May 17th, 2016|Blog, Front Page, Tips and Tangents|0 Comments

The, Uh, Cutting Edge Inception of the Fertility Awareness Network (FAN) (Part I)

I’ll never forget the phone call I got back in the’80s just a couple weeks before I was scheduled to do a presentation for engaged couples on a religious weekend retreat. It had come to their attention that I was single, so they felt they had no choice but to cancel my lecture because I would be an immoral role model. After all, how could a single person possibly teach couples about the Fertility Awareness Method and ‘the marital embrace’? Back in the mid-80s when many of you were but toddlers and computers were the size of VW bugs, there were only a handful of secular Fertility Awareness instructors in the country. Trying to organize such a group of like-minded professionals dispersed across [...]

By | May 11th, 2016|Front Page, Tips and Tangents|0 Comments
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