A Message from Toni Weschler
Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents
How Cats Turn Brains to Mush
There are few types of love more powerful than the love of one’s child, unless, of course, it's the love of one’s cat. Say, what? That’s right. There is a select group of people for whom the love of their cat is enough to make them do irrational things like, oh, not travel for 12 years lest their kitty misses them. I know . . . crazy right? Except, I’m one of them. But that’s only the half of it. Two years after my book Taking Charge of Your Fertility was first published back in 1995, I was faced with a rather scary issue. I kept awakening from a recurring nightmare that I was being suffocated. Once I realized what was going on, I did what any [...]
Confusing Irregular Cycles with a Pregnancy
There’s a certain irony in the fact that the majority of women have at one time or other probably experienced mild panic when their period was a few days late, only to discover that years later, so many of them would do anything to get pregnant. Both situations are really two sides of the same coin, and the bottom line is that if women learned how to chart their cycles, they would be able to understand what was going on with their bodies. One of the most challenging menstrual patterns are irregular or long cycles. There are many reasons why a woman may have these, or why they may even not ovulate altogether. In fact, most women go through various phases in which they may experience such [...]
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