A Message from Toni Weschler
Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents
When Multiple Conceptions Go Awry
Anyone who’s ever met me learns fairly quickly that I am a tad obsessed with the fascinating world of unusual multiples — be it twins, triplets, or quads. Suffice it to say, if I weren’t concerned about, oh, I don’t know, the demise of the world through the pandemic and climate change, I’d love nothing more than to curl up with a good . . . um . . . laptop, and research each and every intriguing set ever born. But given my limited space, I’m going to touch on just two unique multiples, both coincidentally British — the first still in utero, and the second already born: Unique Case #1 Kelly Fairhurst of Braintree, Essex was already the mother [...]
Wait . . . What Happened to My Period?
If you’ve noticed lately that you’ve had exceedingly long cycles, you’re not alone. As a casual experiment, during your next zoom office meeting, you may even want to ask a few of your closest coworkers whether they, too, have noticed that they’ve had long cycles recently. Then prepare for a long awkward silence . . . before women burst into nervous giggles. The phenomenon of these type of cycles is known as “stress-induced delayed ovulation” and often occurs when women are experiencing unusual circumstances, often beyond their control. Um, Covid-19 come to mind, anyone? For all of us alive today, we are living in unprecedented times. At this point, it’s cliché to list all the ways that this nasty virus [...]
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