A Message from Toni Weschler
Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents
Fake. Fake. Fake. Fake.
If you are a Seinfeld fanatic like me, just reading those four words above probably elicited an immediate chuckle of recognition. And if you’re not? Just google it. At any rate, one of the hardest things for some women to reckon with is that they’ve never had an orgasm, or they often assume that they are the only ones who have not had one during intercourse. In reality, less than half of women are able to have an orgasm during intercourse. One of the main reasons is simply due to the huge difference in physiology between male and female physiology. The most sensitive region on a man’s body is the head of the penis, so naturally, it is very easy [...]
Identifying Your Peak Day for Conception
It’s approaching a year since the last time probably any of us just happened to converse with a total stranger in the course of a day. I mean, let’s be honest, how conducive is Covid to allowing for the kind of spontaneous and often serendipitous interactions we used to have when, oh I don’t know . . . we weren't covered with a mask and standing at least 6 feet away from each other! But in trying to remember life pre-Covid, I remember how one of the first questions people often asked each other is along the lines of “And what do you do?” As soon as I mentioned that I’m a women’s health educator specializing in fertility, invariably I’d [...]
Taking Charge of Your Fertility

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