A Message from Toni Weschler
Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!
Toni's Tips and Tangents
My Obsession with Identicals
Anyone who has spent time with me knows that I am obsessed with identicals—identical twins, triplets, quads, you name it. And while it doesn’t directly relate to fertility, my obsession is serious enough that I’m sure if push came to shove, I could make a pretty compelling case for why every fertility book should have a full chapter devoted to the concept. At any rate, decades ago, when watching TV was pretty much the only diversion one had (gasp), I watched a talk show featuring nothing but identical quads. But in each case, there was something even more unique about each set than simply that, oh yeah, they were friggin’ identical quads, for God’s sake! The first set was four 16-year old singing teenage girls. When the host [...]
The Elephant in the Room
If you could be a fly on the wall in bedrooms throughout the world, you’d be stunned to see how many women fake orgasms, even with men they’ve been married to for decades. Are women really that deceitful? Think again. Actually, the answer virtually always comes down to our anatomy, and how we were designed. In a word, the most sensitive part of the man’s body is the underside of the shaft, near the tip of his penis. For the woman, on the other hand, it’s the clitoris. The problem is that because the clitoris is located outside the vagina, intercourse is usually not as intense for women as it is for men. In fact, studies indicate that a large majority of women are unable to achieve [...]
Taking Charge of Your Fertility
Are you unhappy with your current method of birth control? Or are you demoralized by your quest to have a baby? Do you also experience confusing signs and symptoms at various times in your cycle, but are frustrated by a lack of simple explanations?
This invaluable resource will help you find the answer to your questions while giving you amazing insights into your own body.
