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A Message from Toni Weschler

Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents

One of My Greatest Regrets

It’s only natural that once people pass over the 50-year milestone, they start the requisite soul-searching that accompanies such a birthday. I must be a little delayed in that department, because here I am, in my late 50’s — OK, 61 to be exact — and it’s only now that I’ve started the process. Do I regret all the Haagen-Dazs coffee ice cream I’ve eaten that may ultimately lead to my dying sooner than others who have denied themselves such pleasures? Heck, no. Why live if you can’t enjoy great food? Do I regret daily walking rather than jogging for exercise? Absolutely not. Well, OK, maybe just a wee bit. But what I do regret is that I never went back to thank . . . nay, [...]

By | January 31st, 2017|Front Page, Tangents|1 Comment

Crazymaking Anovulatory Cycles

For women who don’t chart, they may have no clue that occasionally they don’t release an egg, assuming that if they are bleeding, they must have periods, right? Wrong. Not all bleeding is created equally. Of course, most of the time, it is due to a true period, but it can also be a symptom of a condition that needs medical attention. And sometimes, it is due to an anovulatory cycle, one in which a drop in hormones causes the uterine lining to shed, but no egg was actually released that cycle. This is one of the reasons that I stress charting your cervical fluid and temperatures. If you observe only your cervical fluid, you could be misled to believe that [...]

By | January 12th, 2017|Front Page, Tips|1 Comment
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