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A Message from Toni Weschler

Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents

Who Doesn’t Love A Good Gynecological Exam?

I’m not gonna’ lie. I’m not a huge fan of speculums. Years ago when I taught my Fertility Awareness seminars, one of the things I used to do for giggles was to ask everyone in the room to close their eyes as I screwed open a speculum, just to see how long it took to hear the chorus of groans emanating from my students as they recognized the distinct clatter of hard cold steel. I mean, really . . . who came up with that idea? Nothing says good times like being asked to scoot down on a tiny narrow table, naked under a thin paper gown with your butt hanging off, while a person with a speculum sits mere inches from your hinter-regions, ready to [...]

By | December 27th, 2017|Blog, Front Page|0 Comments

Lovemaking Versus Babymaking

When couples have been trying to get pregnant for a long time, they often acknowledge that lovemaking has become a chore to check off their list. And hearing friends and family joke about how they are going to “go home to make a baby” can only add to their resentment. It’s understandable why that would happen. Although a person’s sexuality is separate from his or her fertility, people often equate them, leaving many dealing with infertility to feel that they are somehow less sexual. This in turn may lead to emotions ranging from unresolved anger and fear to anxiety or guilt. Even worse, communication between the couple often deteriorates just when they need to be more supportive than ever. Sexual problems often arise between couples touched by infertility because sex [...]

By | December 7th, 2017|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments
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