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A Message from Toni Weschler

Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents

Texting as Foreplay

We’ve all seen the videos . . . a woman reading her cell phone trips face first into the decorative water fountain at the mall. Or a man looking at his cell phone walks straight into a light pole. The images aren’t pretty, but let’s be honest, we often find ourselves torn between feeling humiliated for the person and stifling a slight giggle, all the same. Luckily, there’s another way to use cell phones that can be a lot more private and, dare I say, satisfying? Hear me out on this one --- one of the complaints women often have is that they worry that they take a lot longer to get in the mood than their partner. And being [...]

By | November 8th, 2017|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments

The Search for Male Birth Control

I was sipping a single tall, extra-hot, extra foamy latte a couple mornings ago while reading the paper, because that is what one does in Seattle. It’s the law. Anyway, just as I was savoring that first sip of the luscious foam, I nearly spit it out when I read, and I quote: “The researchers found that the (male contraceptive) gel suppressed sperm production after a couple of months. The men’s sperm count went down to less than one million per milliliter, the threshold used for contraception.” https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-search- for-a- new-form- of-birth- control- 1508173537 In case your eyes glazed over when you read that, let me run that by you again. This was an article discussing the status of development of male birth control. In essence, it would be considered [...]

By | October 23rd, 2017|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments
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