I hope this comes across correctly

Do you always feel a sense of control when, after ovulation and after you figure out you're not pregnant this cycle, AF arrives???  I sure do.  I feel that relief of okay, next cycle, let's get on it!  Take control...take your temp....check your CM....track track track....we can do this!   I still feel the pain of not getting pregnant the past cycle, but now at least we can finally get back to business for this cycle! 

That's how I feel today.  I'm focusing on the fact that in 6-7 days my DH and I will be able to get down to business and hopefully conceive this time around.

On a different note, my mom is driving me crazy!  I broke down and told her that DH and I are TTC and she comes back with "But if you get pregnant now, you'll miss sisters graduation and you won't be able to go camping with the family!"  I wanted to say to her, Yes, but you'll have a grandchild....what more can I give you!?"  I love my to death and we are finally at a place where we understand each other and get along fairly well.  We are more like friends now and it's great, but sometimes, I just can't believe her!  She was the one that told me that no matter when you get pregnant there will always be something you're going to miss.  Or if you wait for the 'perfect' time, you'll never have kids.  Such double standards!   Either one or the other, not both.  I'm not too frustrated about it, in fact I laughed about it with a girlfriend today, but just needed to get it out there!

What do you think would be a good response to my mother?