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How Pilling My Kitty Reminded Me Why I don’t Have Children

I’ll be honest. I’m a weenie. Oh sure, I may seem like I have my act together, but if truth be told, there’s a valid reason I chose to not have children. Don’t get me wrong. I love, love, love kids. I love their pudgy little legs when they are just infants, and their Frankenstein [...]

By | 2018-04-13T19:54:29+00:00 April 13th, 2018|Blog, Front Page|0 Comments


Considering how miniscule the human egg is, it’s amazing how many misconceptions there are about its release! When I first got my period at age 12, and for several years thereafter, I was convinced that if I just looked hard enough, I would find the tiny egg nestled on the sanitary napkin amidst the red blood. So when I [...]

By | 2018-03-26T15:29:23+00:00 March 26th, 2018|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments

A Walk Down Memory Lane

The following is an abbreviated list of medical terms that are still or were routinely used to describe common female conditions and functions. Cover the right side and quickly glance down the list of phrases on the left. After all these years, you’d think someone would have developed more (cough, choke) appropriate means of expressing these concepts. I [...]

By | 2018-02-26T18:11:04+00:00 February 26th, 2018|Front Page, Tips|1 Comment

The Major Disparities Between Male and Female Fertility

Let’s see . . . what do these male celebrities all have in common: Steve Martin, Clint Eastwood, Warren Beatty, Larry King, Luciano Pavarotti, Rod Stewart, and Paul McCartney, to name but a few. Take a second to think about it. OK, time’s up. Answer? They’ve all fathered children when they were in their 60s and their wives [...]

By | 2018-02-07T22:55:23+00:00 February 7th, 2018|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments


Starting to chart your cycle can be either exciting or intimidating if you don’t have a solid understanding of how your cycle works and what you are ultimately observing and recording. Which, of course, is why I can’t stress enough the need to either read a comprehensive book (preferably my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility), a Fertility [...]

By | 2018-01-23T16:37:23+00:00 January 23rd, 2018|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments

How to Research Fertility Clinics

Get a referral The two best ways to get a personal recommendation are from a trusted health professional, or from a friend or relative who has successfully used a particular clinic. They both have their advantages. Medical professionals tend to know the reputation of other doctors. But a happy patient can often explain why they recommend a particular clinic, [...]

By | 2018-01-11T22:09:50+00:00 January 11th, 2018|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments

Who Doesn’t Love A Good Gynecological Exam?

I’m not gonna’ lie. I’m not a huge fan of speculums. Years ago when I taught my Fertility Awareness seminars, one of the things I used to do for giggles was to ask everyone in the room to close their eyes as I screwed open a speculum, just to see how long it took to hear the [...]

By | 2017-12-27T22:26:33+00:00 December 27th, 2017|Blog, Front Page|0 Comments

Lovemaking Versus Babymaking

When couples have been trying to get pregnant for a long time, they often acknowledge that lovemaking has become a chore to check off their list. And hearing friends and family joke about how they are going to “go home to make a baby” can only add to their resentment. It’s understandable why that would happen. Although a person’s [...]

By | 2017-12-07T15:58:15+00:00 December 7th, 2017|Front Page, Tips|0 Comments

Three Little Kernels Guaranteed to Put The Kibosh on Political Wrangling This Thanksgiving

Who doesn’t love the wafting aroma of yams, cornbread dressing, and a sage-buttered turkey roasting? Actually, come to think of it, vegetarians don’t. Well maybe the only thing more divisive than what to eat at Thanksgiving is, you guessed it, what you can discuss. And boy will this year’s political scandals challenge even the most [...]

By | 2017-11-20T16:32:51+00:00 November 20th, 2017|Blog, Front Page|0 Comments